when.lying.dont.get.caught!

Acdg to Sex and the City, there are two elements of cheating: lying and being caught. Unless one is missing, it wont be considered cheating.


The trust, cheating, lying issues have been the favorite topics for this month. Why is everybody so affected? Uso ba to?


Rihanna - Take a Bow - Don't tell me you're sorry cause you're not. Baby when I know you're only sorry you got caught!

Kay B - Cheaters Dilemma - I found out that you cheated on me. Like I cheated on you with her. Now we’re even, what happens from here?

Hhmm, uso indeed!


When lying don't get caught, better yet, don't lie at all.. (dude, peram muna..) Quote that had formulated after a friend caught someone who had actually lied, unfortunately got caught, and therefore cheated on him.

Another good friend of mine has been dealing with this trust issue recently. Worse, they broke up JUST because of the stupid lie. It's really mababaw if u'll hear it. At first i really dont know the detail but because i know my friend, i assumed that his partner must have lied, then denied it, then finally admit it. I was right, dun talaga cia nairita.

Cant get enough of TRUST, my other friend had just broke up with her partner for two years because of lack of trust (well, isa lang to sa million issues nila). so my friend started dating again, at sa kagagahan nia, the things that she hated so much before, aun ang ginagawa nia ngaun sa latest date nia. Tontacles ka lang ba or natrauma?

And my new ofcmate had just broke up with her ka-live in for a year because of someone else. Afterall the cellphone, the 2000feysus jeans, and a lot more things for the material girl, not to mention ang sustentong grocery sa family ng girl, her girlfriend/X still managed to cheat!


Now what??


Waiting for me to share my own cheating story?


Alryt, alryt..


Yes I have experienced it before. I had an instinct that my X was cheating on me. Well he admitted that he had a new/another GF. And because of that ULTIMATE DISREPECT, i lost so much pounds due to depression. And until now, im like this- anorexic ang drama for life. After so many years, i havent regain my normal weight..

But seriously, until now I still can't figure out why i got depressed- is it because I still love him that time, or is it because he left me for someone at di ko un matanggap!



So why do people cheat and lie?
Does it mean if someone had lied or cheated on you, it's OK to lie and cheat on others too?


There are two conclusions when someone lied on you:

1. It's for your own good.
2. You are not good enough to handle the truth.


Im no angel here. Ofcors from time to time I lie. But hey, I have my reasons! And trust me, you will thank me for not telling you the truth.. And make sure when lying- dapat malinis! winkwink

And I deeply appreciate those who are close to me for the burden of keeping the truth so it wont hurt me. Sobrang trauma na ko jan, and I just wish I never discovered it at all. Sigh!

Oohh, I admit that I lie, but I dont cheat! Exemption ba ang exams? hehe Cheating as in "may third party" is the definition of cheating here. Cheaters are persons na walang GMRC nung gradeschool sila. Dont they know the word respect?!

Trust. Yeah it's so hard to find/meet someone who you can really trust. But it doesnt mean na nauubos na sila. Wag naman paranoid. I still believe there are lots of trustworthy people sa earth more than sa mga lolokohin ka.

AFTERALL

“It is better to suffer wrong than to do it, and happier to be sometimes cheated than not to trust at all.” - copied from the web


DISCLAIMER: I/WE dont have any trust/cheat/lie issues pa, wala pa.. joke! As I said, USO lang!