he's.just.not.that.into.you

I watched Sex and the City season 6 or 7 earlier and finally i crossed upon the "he's just not that into you" episode. My friend Rhye from my first company let me read this book, and oh my - EVIL GENIUS book!

SIGNS THAT HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU

1. If he's not asking you out. (..because if he likes you, he'll ask you out.)

:: Dont make excuses that he is busy working or doing other things. He is not even asking you out even once because he's just not that into you! Ikaw lang ba ang gustong mgkita kayong ulet?

----- if you dont believe it -----

:: 100% of the men polled said that if girls do it, they'll just spoil the fun!


2. If he's not calling you. (Men know how to phone call.)

:: Dont pretend that he lost your number, his cellphone was stolen, or he's working diligently. He's not calling you because he's just not that into you! Kala mo ba lowbat lagi ang fone nian?

----- if you dont believe it -----

:: 100% of the men polled said theyre never been busy to call a woman they are really into!


3. If he's not dating you. (Hanging out isn't dating.)

:: There's a difference when you go out alone and when you're friends are everywhere. The truth is he doesnt want to spend the time alone with you because he's just not that into you! Friends lang kayo nian, assuming ka naman.

----- if you dont believe it -----

:: 100% of the men polled said a fear of intimacy has never stopped from getting into a relationship.


4. If he's not touching you. (when men like you, they want to touch you, always!)

:: Well, all men like to touch.. Unless kinakahiya or kabit ka nia, he wont even walk with you in public.

----- if you dont believe it -----

:: 100% of the men polled said ... wait, need i say more?


5. If he's cheated on you. (Read: There's never been a good excuse for cheating.)

:: There will always be a prettier, sexier, funnier woman. So? Is that a good excuse for his cheating? He cheated because he's just not that into you! Girl, if he's cheated on you even once, then he becomes unworthy of your time.

----- if you dont believe it -----

:: 100% of the men polled said they never accidentally slept with anyone. (though neither one of them remembered why it happended!)


6. If he only wants to see you when he's drunk. (and his judgement isn't impaired.)

:: He likes you around only when he is not at his best. Adik to!

----- if you dont believe it -----

:: 100% of the men polled said they never vomitted in front of a woman they were really into.


7. If he doesn't want to marry you. (Love cures commitment-phobia.)

:: Never make excuses for him that he's just been out of a hard break up recently, or he is the provider of his family, or he has priorities. It's this simple: guy meets girl; guy dates girl; guy courts guy; guy marries girl! He doesnt want to marry you because he's not sure with you! Love cures commitment-phobia: says it all!

----- if you dont believe it -----

:: 100% of the men polled said they have no problem marrying a woman who they were positive
the love of their life.


8. If he's breaking up with you. (..means "I dont want to go out with you anymore.")

:: He's just not angry or pissed off by the time he said he wanted to break off. He broke up with you simply because he's just not that into you! No nagpapahabol-ako-drama effect yan, break kapag break!

----- if you dont believe it -----

:: 100% of the men polled said that when they broke up with someone, it always meant that they didn't want to be with you anymore.


9. If he's disappeared on you. (Closure all by yourself.)

:: There's no more chance for this type OK?! Super rude not to even tell the girl that theyre off.

----- if you dont believe it -----

:: 100% of the men polled who had disappeared on a woman said that they are completely aware of what a horrible thing they were doing, and no woman calling them up would have changed that.


10. If he's married, still attached with someone else. (If you're not able to love freely, it's not really love.)

:: If he loves you he'll fix things to make things right for you, and not just make you clueless where your relationship will go. If plans and promises are all he has, then he's just not that into you! Kaya nga number two ka lang dba, ksi my priority cia..

----- if you dont believe it -----

:: ..list down top 5 qualities you want your man to have. check your list- MARRIED isn't included.


11. If he's a selfish jerk, a bully, a really big freak. (If you really love someone, you want to do things to make that person happy.)

:: Pati ba pagiging obnoxiuos nia pagtatakpan mo pa?!

----- if you dont believe it -----

:: 100% of the men polled said they never tried to humiliate or torture a woman they are really into.

[an evil genius book by greg and liz]

when.lying.dont.get.caught!

Acdg to Sex and the City, there are two elements of cheating: lying and being caught. Unless one is missing, it wont be considered cheating.


The trust, cheating, lying issues have been the favorite topics for this month. Why is everybody so affected? Uso ba to?


Rihanna - Take a Bow - Don't tell me you're sorry cause you're not. Baby when I know you're only sorry you got caught!

Kay B - Cheaters Dilemma - I found out that you cheated on me. Like I cheated on you with her. Now we’re even, what happens from here?

Hhmm, uso indeed!


When lying don't get caught, better yet, don't lie at all.. (dude, peram muna..) Quote that had formulated after a friend caught someone who had actually lied, unfortunately got caught, and therefore cheated on him.

Another good friend of mine has been dealing with this trust issue recently. Worse, they broke up JUST because of the stupid lie. It's really mababaw if u'll hear it. At first i really dont know the detail but because i know my friend, i assumed that his partner must have lied, then denied it, then finally admit it. I was right, dun talaga cia nairita.

Cant get enough of TRUST, my other friend had just broke up with her partner for two years because of lack of trust (well, isa lang to sa million issues nila). so my friend started dating again, at sa kagagahan nia, the things that she hated so much before, aun ang ginagawa nia ngaun sa latest date nia. Tontacles ka lang ba or natrauma?

And my new ofcmate had just broke up with her ka-live in for a year because of someone else. Afterall the cellphone, the 2000feysus jeans, and a lot more things for the material girl, not to mention ang sustentong grocery sa family ng girl, her girlfriend/X still managed to cheat!


Now what??


Waiting for me to share my own cheating story?


Alryt, alryt..


Yes I have experienced it before. I had an instinct that my X was cheating on me. Well he admitted that he had a new/another GF. And because of that ULTIMATE DISREPECT, i lost so much pounds due to depression. And until now, im like this- anorexic ang drama for life. After so many years, i havent regain my normal weight..

But seriously, until now I still can't figure out why i got depressed- is it because I still love him that time, or is it because he left me for someone at di ko un matanggap!



So why do people cheat and lie?
Does it mean if someone had lied or cheated on you, it's OK to lie and cheat on others too?


There are two conclusions when someone lied on you:

1. It's for your own good.
2. You are not good enough to handle the truth.


Im no angel here. Ofcors from time to time I lie. But hey, I have my reasons! And trust me, you will thank me for not telling you the truth.. And make sure when lying- dapat malinis! winkwink

And I deeply appreciate those who are close to me for the burden of keeping the truth so it wont hurt me. Sobrang trauma na ko jan, and I just wish I never discovered it at all. Sigh!

Oohh, I admit that I lie, but I dont cheat! Exemption ba ang exams? hehe Cheating as in "may third party" is the definition of cheating here. Cheaters are persons na walang GMRC nung gradeschool sila. Dont they know the word respect?!

Trust. Yeah it's so hard to find/meet someone who you can really trust. But it doesnt mean na nauubos na sila. Wag naman paranoid. I still believe there are lots of trustworthy people sa earth more than sa mga lolokohin ka.

AFTERALL

“It is better to suffer wrong than to do it, and happier to be sometimes cheated than not to trust at all.” - copied from the web


DISCLAIMER: I/WE dont have any trust/cheat/lie issues pa, wala pa.. joke! As I said, USO lang!

ITALY.i.think.ayoko.lang.yata

21.june.2008 whew, antagal ko nawala. sabe nga nila, pag my bagong routine bigla, it means my bagong pinagkakaabalahan.

got a new job! yes, new job ulet. call center in makati, sa rcbc plaza. nweys, i was lucky naman to be part of a call center industry at mgkaron ng IT position dun without undergoing the stressful stage of being an agent.

i used to believe that callcenter people are hopeless; well now i know kung gano kahirap makapasa maging agent.

kala ko high paying or big time ang salary ng agents; SUS- di naman pala.. yeah easy money pero mas malaki pa sweldo ko before.

i thought night shifts are bull shits, I WAS WRONG! nag-eenjoy ako ah. inferness..


going back, i now work in a call center cmpny, but i dont handle calls. non-operations. sbe nga ng team mates ko- na ALL BOYS ulet, im the first to be hired na walang exp sa pagiging agent. cgro nakatulong lang ang skills ko from trend, knowledge of oracle, and of course communication skills (pambobola) kaya i got the job.


and officially, night person na ko!


ang hirap, aaminin kong todo ang headache, at antok ofcors. lalo na ung byahe ng madaling araw. dame ng-aalala. ang concern ko lang ay baka mawalan ako ng lovelife..


wel, kaya mtagal ako nawala. dame ko nba namiss i-blog? YES!


:: ang birthday celebration ni dren

no shades for the celebrant

im so ingget with the cake!

:: dinner with jeric's family sa seaside

seattle's MOA with aina

:: and ofcors, jeric's birthday

somewhere in trinoma

i'll try gumawa ng blog for these, provide me lang the pics please. for the meantime, sana madali ako makarelate sa bago kong buhay...

last thursday...

me: dude, parang i must wear shorts nalang sa ofc. nabasa pantalon ko sa baha, at lately umuulan pg uwian ko na. pumayag kana. lagpas tuhod naman un. ok na? love you! (--,)

jeric: mahirap yatang bumiyahe ng madaling araw ng nkashorts. buti sana kung hiphop shorts mo. magbaon ka nalang. ITALY (i think ayoko lang yata) hehe. love you too! :9

aliw ang ITALY!

just.turned.24

31.may.2008 I slept late because my brother has too many favors on me. He's leaving for SG in a few days so his computers and laptop need to be in good condition. Arte! Being the mabait sister in me, i said yes, dahil wala kong choice, and i finished the work by 2am na yata. Im just so sleepy then.

I woke up early and my fone has received too many txt messages and some missed calls. I'd like to emphasis the greeting of Nog, Win, Agong, and Mahmed for those synchronized texts. Guys thanks! Theyre cute! Aside from those, another txt message really melted my heart. It says "Hi chyng. Happy Birthday! - Jeffrey Wong" I couldnt say a word but WOW! He knew my bday? Nakahide kc sa frenster ung bday ko so that i'll know kung cno tlga nakakaalam. Aside from that, he included his full name. Sir Jeff naman, di ko dinelete sa phonebook ko ang name mo. Ur still my best supervisor ever!

It's still early so i decided na magmarathon muna ng Sex and the City. Before 11am yta, someone is calling my name at our gate. Amazing! A guy whose puyat ay nsa bahay namen that early?! You win, nasurprised talaga ko. Ok, he brought a cake (na hndi ko kinakain- alam kong cnadya mo) and spaghetti for my family (effort to ng mama mo, nxtime kaw magluto ha). Cgro those are suhol para makaalis kame dat day. Wel thanks! Very much appreciated lalo na ung HINDI mo pagdala ng flowers (nde ako kumakain nian) at stuff toys (tinatype ko palang kinikilabutan nako, wat more in real life).

Jongster and ate Cha dropped by para iwan si Abie dahil punta dw cla money changer muna. Hala, baby sitters pa kame. Hirap pa naman i-please ni Abie. At SATC pa ang pinapanood, naiinip na ang bata. Buti nalang Jeric let her play with his iphone. Yan, close na cla..

After that punta na kme sa RobPlace, too bad nde fit ang sched namen for SATC. So lakad lakad at kulitan moments. Then went to chose san kame kakain. And there, the place is Gumbo!

Gumbo 2nd level Rob Midtown

We ordered Barbecue Shrimp, Grilled Porchop something, and a free Buffalo Chicken Wings! Wow, food is good! Yummy! Di kame ngkamali ng food selection though it's both our first time. more detailed description on the food by Jeric..

On Barbecue Shrimp:
The best! It's barbecue sweet with a hint of mint and then becomes spicy after a few seconds it stayed in your mouth. The spicy flavor is not the type that makes you sweat like a pig nor the spicy type that hurts the throat. Its the spicy flavor that's just right for the taste. And despite all the flavor of the sauce, it doesn't overpower the shrimp flavor. Simply perfect! (i agree dude!)

On Griiled Porchop meal:
I haven't seen any grilled porkchop that looked this delicious. It tasted okay but i was looking for more flavor probably it was not marinated that well or the pork slice was a bit thick it did not absorb much flavor. It was a bit dry, i was hoping it would be more juicy. This could be New Orleans style but it's not working that much for me. The brocolli-corn-carrot side dish was good though. (weh, eh bakit naubos naten to? admit it masarap cia kahit forgettable ung lasa)


On Buffalo Chicken Wings:
There's nothing much special with the buffalo wings. It's just your semi-barbecue sweet n spicy chicken. But hey, it's free. (no comment)



And of course, how can we not request for a bday song! Intermission number tlga. They sang and danced, uhm, 6 songs ata. Antagal. but i enjoyed it. Production kung production number!

the whole staff of Gumbo with me

Overall, it is really a great dining experience. We recommend it. At dapat to balikan! Two thumbs up!


After that meal, mass kame sa Malate Church where merong 1 thousand na sagala! Panalo ang outfits, merong pang fairy tale, pang graduation, parang ikakasal, at cympre merong pangJapan! Jeric chose na mgstay kme near the choir mejo maingay kc sa gitna. nakatabi naman ang group of girls na part yta nf some legion or something. They are all crying while praying. And Jeric was too sleepy so i thought he is crying too. Nakakacurious why are they crying.. Hhmm...

Balik kame sa Rob after the mass. Kulitan moments since wala pa ang bisita.

salamin-addicts!

And since a good friend of ours palang ang andun sa calltime ko na 7:30, we decided muna na mgstay sa UCC- where great blueberry cheesecakes are served!


Antagal ng mga frens ko, at ngjujustify pa cla dahil it's too early pa daw dahil nde pa 9pm. Sampal gusto nio, 7:30 nga calltime dba? Wel, when we saw them, they are holding a PINK giftbag. Nananadya tlga kayo.. U know i hate pinks and reds! Kaya naman pla ay dahil super naimpressed ako sa laman ng giftbag! A MAC shimmer blush. Sobrang saya ko nde dahil it's really what i needed ryt now (impressive ah, u both know wat i want). Naiimagine ko palang how two boys went to Rustan's beauty shop to search for a shimmer blush that's right for my complexion, that really made me so happy na. Thanks so much.

my family and their gift

a MAC shimmer blush! - it's sooo perfect!

It's dinnertime na again, at kahit we are so full pa, Buffet na tayo sa Don Henrico's!

bday treat at Don Hen's, at ako lang pwedeng magshades ngaun!

c3 is great tlga in capturing our pics

After that, it's videoke time! Finally someone to sing my favorite songs, I Live for your Love, I miss you like crazy, hehe. Im happy pero eto gusto kong kantahin ni dren, cia lang nakakakanta nian, antaas kasi. Super enjoy ang videoke that night. kung di pa inawat ng 3am, ayaw pa yata umuwe. Oh and thanks sa bracelet!

and of course thanks sa effort and time. i need them more than those "complicated gifts".

It's been a long day. And i had a great time. After all the many preludes, finally my real birthday. I just turned 24!